Jodi Speaks Her Mind

 

The Weekend is Here 11/2/2007

Filed under: General, Adoption Journey, Sophie — jodi @ 11:50 pm

We are actually very glad to be starting our days with Sophie over a long weekend.  Monday is a holiday, and thus far we have only one outing planned over the next 3 days and that is to go to church with Elena  on Sunday afternoon.  So this morning we all slept as long as was needed, which was quite a bit longer than usual because we were up so late trying to help Sophie get to sleep.  Adelina and Nancy slept fairly late, too, I’m guessing just because yesterday was such a big day for everyone.  We all woke up at least contented and not fussy, had a leisurely breakfast, and eventually got showers (those who wanted them).

After a quiet morning inside, everyone bundled up for some outside time.  Adelina especially enjoyed this time, where she and Steve and Nancy played for a long time on the teeter-totter.  Sophie and I swung gently on the wooden swing and then just walked about.  She is much more timid about thrills than Adelina, but she thoroughly enjoyed watching Adelina jumping from the swings, walking and balancing across the teeter-totter, and other displays of her athletic prowess.  After play-time we all came inside for a delicious lunch of soup, bread, and fruit salad.  Sophie ate well again and this time didn’t keep food in her mouth, though she did cling tightly to a cookie clear until she fell asleep for her nap.  She did better this time with going to sleep.  I snuggled with her on the sitting chair in the crib room until she eventually fell asleep.  Once she was soundly enough asleep I moved her into the crib.  She awoke briefly but just adjusted her positioning and then went right back to sleep.  We were all very relieved, since we weren’t sure how well she would cooperate with this new plan.  We’ll try this method again at bedtime tonight and hopefully have similar success.

She is now awake from her nap and playing once again with Adelina.  More tomorrow!

 
 

Heat or Sun? 7/8/2007

Filed under: General — jodi @ 9:22 pm

It’s a tough call, especially since we have both in spades here in Arizona.  You might think it odd I even have/get to make a decision between heat or sun, but the situation is that I’ve begun exercising again.  While I often do TV-recorded workouts in the pleasant cool of the house, sometimes I like to get outside and run.  So I have a choice:  I can run after the sun goes down while it is around 96-97 degrees outside OR I can run in the morning when it is cooler, but the sun is bright and its rays are powerful.  For me, I choose heat over sun because I can endure sweat, but the sun is just not friendly to my fair skin.  There are more practical issues as well, such as the problem that Steve leaves by 6:00 am and I am so not a morning person.  Getting up early enough to run before he’s gone is most likely not ever going to happen.  So, for me, it’s the heat.  Oddly, I enjoy my hot evening runs, even if I am a disgusting sweaty mess when I return.  I bring along my ipod shuffle and enjoy a hearty selection of praise and worship while I run.  It’s a physical and spiritual workout.  Ok, off to the shower for me!

 
 

Revisiting the Garden 8/20/2006

Filed under: General — jodi @ 9:03 pm

While remembering where we were a year ago, I was especially blessed to revisit this special post written the night before we met Adelina.

 
 

Happy 4th of July!! 7/4/2006

Filed under: General — jodi @ 11:20 am

I hope today we all remember to celebrate the amazing freedom we enjoy here in the U.S. It is truly remarkable and something to be thankful for and to cherish.

Happy Independence Day!

 
 

Home from John Tracy Clinic 7/3/2006

Filed under: General, Adelina, CI Journey — jodi @ 5:05 pm

We returned home on Friday night after 3 weeks at JTC in Los Angeles. The experience there was so phenomenal that it is difficult to summarize, but I’ll try. Basically, the summer session is an intensive parent-centered program whose goal is to empower you (the parent) to understand your child’s deafness and development and equip you to parent, teach, advocate for, and otherwise make decisions related to the child’s growth, development, and education.

The program included the following topics:

  • Speech Acoustics and speech development (phonetic and phonologic)
  • Auditory Learning
  • Anatomy and Physiology of the Ear
  • Cognitive Development
  • Language Development (Expressive and Receptive)
  • Interpreting Audiograms
  • Hearing Aids and Cochlear Implants (including troubleshooting)
  • Medical issues of hearing loss
  • Communication approaches
  • US Laws and IEP’s
  • Mainstreaming
  • Child Development
  • Behavior Management
  • Books and Literacy Development

Adelina participated in the preschool program and loved it. She made good friends with the other children as well as the teachers and assistants. She worked daily with a Speech and Language Teacher (SLT) and also met with two separate audiologists over the three week period. Parents were provided many opportunities to observe the educational environment, including the time with the SLT, and we met frequently with the SLT and touched base almost daily with the Classroom teachers. The communication modality at JTC is exclusively oral though most of the teachers can understand ASL and will respond to the child’s expressive communication by acknowledging it, giving it back in English, and encouraging the child to use spoken language. This was very effective with Adelina, as her hearing (with her devices) is so good, and she is strongly motivated to learn speech. She still signs quite a bit because it is easier and more comfortable, but her goal is to talk, so we are doing what we can to assist her towards that goal. She is now talking in short, simple sentences and her speech is improving to the point where we can even understand what she is trying to say. For awhile we were dependent on her giving us the signs, which she was often reluctant to do, but now we can usually figure out her message because she is including more words. Frustration levels from all sides have dropped significantly!! (woohoo Praise God!)

Another aspect of the Summer Session is the support system they set up. Some of this is direct and some is indirect. Directly it is facilitated by support group meetings where parents meet with each other regularly to discuss the challenges and difficulties unique to parenting a deaf preschooler. Indirectly we developed support just by living together. We were all on a single floor of a university dorm apartment building. In the beginning, most families kept to the themselves, but by the end, our kids moved freely between apartments and the parents often did the same. Families often went on outings together for sight-seeing or walks to the ice cream store. For me this was a huge part of the benefit of JTC because I was able to learn so much by observing these parents - all of whom have more parenting experience than I have with my short parentage of just 8 months! I came home with a much better feel for what a 5 year old should and shouldn’t be able to do and what is appropriate play for her. It was also just a wonderfully bonding time for Adelina and I.

Was it successful? Yes! I really do feel better equipped now to parent Adelina and make informed decisions regarding her education, therapies, goals, and much more. I learned that I am her primary language teacher, and now I know how to BE her language teacher, at least I know how to get started, and I know where to look for further guidance and support. Honestly, if anyone is considering JTC for their family for some time in the future, I strongly encourage you to give it a try. It provides a foundation that you can build on for a lifetime.