Jodi Speaks Her Mind

 

Ken Burns’ THE WAR - episode 1 9/26/2007

Filed under: Entertainment — jodi @ 10:05 am

I began watching this documentary series two days ago. I can only watch occasionally, so it may take me a few weeks to get through it all. I have some initial thoughts and feelings that I want to share.

First off, the reason I am watching the show is because I am very poorly educated about WW II. Supposedly we covered it at some point in school, but all I remember is the holocaust and the atomic bombings in Japan (and frankly, I never understood how the two were connected). Very little else stuck. So what little bit I do know is what I’ve picked up as an adult from discussions, news articles, reading some historical fiction, and things like that. I recently finished a series that took place during WW II and really enjoyed what I learned through it. So when I’d heard about the documentary, I was really intrigued.

After watching the first episode titled “A Necessary War” I have some positive and negative comments. First, the positives: it is obviously well done and they have collected a huge amount of video footage for the piece. I think this is huge because it shows what really happened and not just someone’s memory of what happened. The images are really graphic, not surprisingly, but they definitely bring home the point that war is and was hell.

The biggest negative, thus far, is that it is obviously presented from the American point of view. While this is to a large degree understandable, since the good ol’ USA is the source for his pool of interviewees and vast amounts of the footage, I guess I had hoped it would be a bit more global in its approach. I thought it would present it as “The War” and not just “America’s part of The War”. I was hoping they would tell it from the very beginning of THE WAR and not just the beginning of our involvement. (In all fairness, I only watched the first segment, so perhaps this will improve with future episodes.)

And I actually take issue with the title “A Necessary War”. Evidently the government and people of the U.S. did not think it a necessary war, until we got attacked. Had the Japanese not attacked Pearl Harbor, perhaps we would have remained outside the fighting in our role as observers and suppliers. History seems to show, however, that our participation was critical to the eventual success of the Allied Forces leading me to wonder if the outcome of the overall war would have been completely different. I think from that point of view we owe Japan a huge debt of gratitude. They might have conquered the entire Pacific before we considered involvement and by then it might have been too late. We were somewhat too late as it was!

As for the show’s style, I have two complaints: first, it was too sloooooow. Second, they were obviously trying way too hard to get us to feel emotion. Ok, folks, it’s a show about war and death and destruction. Let the stories speak for themselves, and lay off the annoying background music that is supposed to add angst and emotion where none needs to be added. Most of the testimonies would have been more powerful with the images and just their voice telling the story. I’ll admit most of the interviewees are speaking in deadpan voices, but it’s so understandable - they have to keep their emotions cut off or they’ll go insane from the horrors of what they experienced! I still think their stories didn’t need manipulative music playing in the background. It took away rather than added anything IMO.

My final comment has to do with the “tacked onto the end portion” regarding Latino participation in the American efforts for WW II. I heard this discussed on NPR and agree that it felt very gratuitous and didn’t actually contribute anything fresh to the documentary.

 
 

No pics or video of Sophie - a brief update - and the Zoo 9/25/2007

Filed under: Adoption Journey, Adelina, Sophie — jodi @ 8:18 am

It has been brought to our attention that we are not supposed to post any pictures or video of our not yet adopted child. I had to take down the picture I had posted here on the blog and all pictures and video on the gallery. We can repost them all once the adoption is complete. Thank you for your understanding.

Since people have been asking, I’ll share the status of things. Basically, nothing has changed. We are still waiting for the letter to come from Moscow that releases Sophie from the national databank registry. It is not expected to arrive for another two weeks, so we are not anxious or worried about it.

In the meantime, we are focusing on school and some home improvement projects - mostly painting. Addy and I went to the zoo on Saturday, so here are a couple of pictures from that excursion.

BouncyTractor

HatchingAddy

AddyOnAHorse

 
 

The ache sets in 9/18/2007

Filed under: Adoption Journey, Sophie — jodi @ 8:27 am

We have been home now for 12 days and the hard waiting has begun.  We watch our videos and review our pictures of Sophie almost constantly and just cannot wait to go back and bring her home.  Our wait is supposedly not that long, but I had heard the waiting between trips is the hardest part, and now I understand why.  Being so far away from a child you’ve claimed for your own is really hard!  Knowing she is living in an orphanage with only the most minimal care is painful.  It was hard with Adelina, too, but at least we got to visit her each day and begin to forge a relationship and some rudimentary language.  Sophie just waits.  Actually, Sophie most likely doesn’t understand what is going to happen, so she is in many ways unaffected.  And yet she is going to be our daughter, which changes everything at least from our point of view.

Our paperwork was mailed yesterday, so our agency will receive it and send it along to Russia.  Then we will only be waiting on the Russia side paperwork.  Specifically, we are waiting for a letter that has to come from the Moscow Ministry of Education that releases Sophie from the national databank (i.e. registry).  Evidently this letter must go through the mail system and can go no other route.  For this reason, plus the MOE has up to 2 weeks to issue the letter, it can take 3-5 weeks for this letter to come, and that is presuming there are no glitches in her being released.  We’re hoping for the short end of that time frame.  We know the document requesting the release letter was mailed at the end of last week, so just pray for no issues with the Russian mail system either direction.

Once that letter comes back to the Vladivostok DOE (Department of Education), the court documents will be complete and can be submitted to the courts - but only on a Tuesday - and a week or so after that we should receive a preliminary court date for 3-6 weeks later.

I think that about sums up the remaining process as far as awaiting a court date.  I’ll keep you updated!

 
 

The deaf hear 9/15/2007

Filed under: newsy stuff, CI Journey — jodi @ 8:43 pm

This video clip is really inspiring.  I’d bet a large sum of money that the girl has a cochlear implant.  I love her accent!

 
 

What’s Next 9/13/2007

Filed under: Adoption Journey, Sophie — jodi @ 4:19 pm

Okay, I guess I didn’t make it clear that this adoption process is a two trip thing. Some people thought we came home with Anna this trip, but sadly, we didn’t. We will return in 2-3 months and will get to bring her home then. In the meantime, there is some final paperwork to complete and some time for us to prepare our home and our hearts for our new arrival.

We have chosen a name. She will be Anna Sophia Ivy, and we will be calling her Sophie, so from now on I will refer to her as Sophie in our blog. Thanks to Nate and Amanda and Jason and Sonya for the name inspiration. Hope you don’t mind, but the name just fits her so well, and Anna and Addy are just way too close both in sound and as they appear on the lips.

Steve and I are both sick still but we’re looking forward to preparing a room for Sophie and readying our lives for her homecoming. We are hoping the time between trips goes by fast.

 
 

Final Day in Vlad and trip Home - Sept. 7

Filed under: Adoption Journey, Sophie — jodi @ 4:06 pm

Friday was a wonderful day if not a bit long. It started out rather stressful in that our registration papers had still not been submitted from the hotel. These are papers that are required for us to demonstrate our presence here. We were checking out of the hotel at 8 am and the registration papers were brought in by a woman at 8:05. Talk about cutting it close!

Anyhow, so we checked of the hotel after enjoying our final breakfast there - I’m going to miss that yummy porridge. The weather had taken a turn and it was dark and rainy outside, but this was really kind of a refreshing change not only from the stuffy hotter weather Vlad normally has this time of year, but from the God-awful hot and dry weather from home. A day of rain is just what we needed.

We had our typical drive out to Ussurisk with the weather being the only difference, and our visit with Anna was also nice because we spent the whole time inside with her on a mat on the floor. She was wearing a darling light green outfit and she appeared to have been washed. It was sad to think this was the last time we’d see her for a couple of months, but it was also a sweet visit. We showed her the pictures we’d had made for her and gave her the pink picture purse to keep. We had fun playing with a balloon and some other toys, too. When we were finished we thanked the caregivers and gave them the toys we had brought as well as the one-time use camera we had brought for them to take pictures of her for us over the coming months. They were so kind to us and grateful for the toys, even though we felt they weren’t much. Pictures from this visit are here.

We also said our farewells to the head doctor and she said we are very welcome to bring Adelina with us on our next trip. We were glad for this because we had been told that some orphanages will not permit outside children onto their grounds.

Final farewell to Anna and then we were off and headed back towards Vlad. We stopped and had a lovely lunch at the Minutka Cafe with our driver and translator and then it was on to the airport for our return flights home. We arrived a bit early and there was a big hoopla in the airport as a pair of newlyweds were apparently leaving for a honeymoon. There were masses of people making lots of noise and the happy couple were still in their wedding digs. Eventually we were permitted to go through immigration, check in, and then it was through passport control. Then we waited for our flight. We had been checked all the way through, but discovered our seats were not together on the long flight over the Pacific, so we got those changed. Unfortunately, we were now seated on the inside seats, but at least we were together.

The flights home were largely uneventful. Our first flight left at 5:30 pm and arrived at 6:00 pm (2 hr 30 min. flight). The next flight left at 7:30 pm and arrived at 2:45 pm on the same day (after 11 hours in the air), and our third flight left at 6:05 pm - still Friday - and arrived in Phoenix at 7:30 pm. So 20+ hours in flight and we arrived just 2 hours after we left. Talk about jet lag!

It was nice once we arrived in Los Angeles, as we were able to make phone calls again freely on our cell phone. We connected with some family (our parents) and then spent the next hour trying to arrange for someone to pick us up at the airport in Phoenix when we arrived - it was the one detail we’d failed to plan for in advance. In the end, Kenda came through - thanks Kenda! We came home and crashed hard.

Saturday we picked up Adelina from her host family. She had had a wonderful week, and they had taken great care of her. She really understood what we were doing and where we had gone and did not get upset or anxious at all. We were so grateful! And she was very excited to see all the pictures and videos of little Anna.

Sunday Steve and I started coming down with a cold. We figured out it had come from Anna, who had a bad runny nose the whole time we were visiting. At least it’s all in the family! ;-)