Jodi Speaks Her Mind

 

Leaving Kiev 7/28/2005

Filed under: — jodi @ 10:38 am

Well, we are happy to report that our paperwork was processed today, and we will be flying tomorrow morning to the region where the boy is that we are going to visit. If we are able to get all the necessary permissions, we will get to meet him tomorrow as well.

We do not yet have a sense as to whether or not this is the child for us, so please do be praying for us!! We wish for a clear answer from God as soon as is reasonable. ;-) But we’ll “settle” for His perfect timing…

More on other details next time…

 
 

Appointment Update 7/27/2005

Filed under: — jodi @ 1:13 pm

We managed to sleep okay last night, and we got up, each showered in the little sit-down tub-shower (impossible to explain, but we’ll try to get it so we can post pictures here pretty soon), gathered the few items we needed to take with us, and headed down for our continental breakfast in one of the hotel restaurants. Breakfast was simple but quite sufficient. There were places set out with a plate containing thinly sliced ham, thinly sliced salami, some cheese slices, tomato slices, and cucumber slices. There was butter also for the bread, which was in the center of the table for everyone to share. We also had a glass of orange juice and some yogurt. While we were working on the “cold cuts” a waiter came by and brought us a plate with something like a ham and egg omelette. It was tasty as well. To top it off Steve had coffee, which he says was really delicious, and I had a nice cup of tea. I remember reading another family’s adoption story and they commented that the hotel breakfast was something to skip, but I promise, we won’t be skipping it! It was definitely Ukrainian in style, but we both found it to be generous, tasty, healthy, and quite satisfying. And free, which makes it taste better somehow! ;-)

After breakfast we met up with our translator and took the metro to downtown Kiev. Actually, our hotel is right at one of the metro stops - literally. You can hear the metro from our window because it is not underground in this part of the city. (Think of the EL in Chicago on right at ground level - it is not quiet!!) Still, their metro system is fast, efficient, and popular. It is also cheap. I don’t actually know how much since our translator just gave us tokens, but I’ll found out.

We had our appointment at the National Adoption Center today. We were somewhat nervous going in, though not nearly as nervous as we would have expected. I think God had placed some kind of protective spiritual bubble around us, as we both were pretty much at peace. We did have to wait awhile before being allowed in for our turn. Our appointment was scheduled for 11:00 am, but we didn’t get into the room to look at files until 11:55. Still, from what I’ve heard, that wasn’t too bad!

After we gave some brief introductions, which seemed kind of awkward, we just handed over the book we made for our child and let the NAC worker (called a psychologist, but more of a social worker) look through it for herself (it has Russian translations). She was young, and seemed pleased. She handed it back saying that it had obviously been made with love. That was enough of that, I guess, and we began the process of finding a match for us. They started by showing us two sibling girls ages 5 and 7. We felt these girls were older than what we desired. We were shown 2 other loose files, which represent children who have just become available today, and we also spent quite some time looking through the books of children who have been waiting for various periods of time to be adopted. In the end, we did select a child we wish to meet!

We are actually not going to give the details of the child but ask you to pray for us as we will be going in the next couple of days to meet him to determine if he is the child that God means for us. Until we know for sure, we would rather not give out any details other than that the child is a boy who is about 2.5 years old.

After the appointment, we parted ways with our translator, who had more paperwork to take care of there at the NAC and on the telephone, and headed back to our hotel via the Metro. We bought yet another bottle of water - boy have we been thirsty! - and talked about seeing some of Kiev. Instead, we got back to our hotel room and promptly crashed. I guess the appointment had taken more out of us than we realized and of course we are still pretty jet-lagged. We didn’t even eat lunch, as the heat and humidity seems to sap our appetites.

We will probably be in Kiev at least through tomorrow (Thursday) evening, while the official referral is written up and travel arrangements are made. We will continue to provide updates as we are able, and look forward to reading your comments as well. Thanks and God bless!

Steve and Jodi at NAC Us standing in front of the NAC entrance

PS Sorry for the delay on the post everyone! We were having technical difficuulties back in the states on our server. It had nothing to do with us being in Ukraine believe it or not. ;-)

 
 

Arrival in Kiev 7/26/2005

Filed under: , — steve @ 10:24 am

We made it here safely. Whew! We managed to get at least some sleep last night, and had no problems catching our flight this morning from London to Kiev. Once we landed in Kiev, we had to go through Passport Control, and the lines were really long. We finally got our turn after 45 minutes, only to be told we had missed a portion of the forms. We had to get out of the line, finish the forms, and start all over! By this time, the line was almost twice as long as the first time we went through it. Needless to say, we were pretty discouraged, but we figured it was just a chance to practice patience and trust that the Lord has it all well in His hands.

Of course in the end, it did turn out to be a blessing, because once we got through passport control, we collected our bags and started filling out customs forms. While doing so, there was an American family doing the same, and they seemed more familiar with the forms, so we asked them for a little guidance. We then heard them mention the words “donation” and “orphanage” so we asked what brought them here. And, of course, they are here to adopt! They already know the children, and are here for court. I guess they had experienced some complications with completing the adoptions the first time, so they came back, this time with 3 kids in tow, and we promised to pray for them and they for us, as we each pursue the children God has for us. Steve and I discussed later how we would not have met them if we hadn’t been forced to stand in the passport control line twice. God really does know what He is doing, and even the glitches are there for a reason.

Our hotel is decent. It has some conveniences which we appreciate, such as free breakfast, a couple of restaurants to choose from, and an internet center, where they have even allowed us to use our own laptop! The cost of use is around $2 an hour. Can’t beat that!

Hotel room Our hotel room

Internet Center at the Hotel Tourist Internet center at the hotel “Tourist”

We ventured to dinner on our own, and I managed to fumble through with my limited Russian to order us some tasty dishes! Steve liked the borscht, and we also had a meat & potatoes dish that was very flavorful, as well as a chicken dish. It was cafeteria style, so to an extent I was able to point. We had smetana (like sour cream) on the borscht of course, and white and dark bread with our other dishes. All in all, it was very tasty, though we weren’t terribly hungry. We get a free continental style breakfast with our room tomorrow, so that should prove to be an interesting experience.

We met both our facilitator and our translator, and they are both very nice. We learned that we have our appointment at the NAC at 11 am tomorrow, which is nice. Not too late in the day, but may very well not happen until after lunch anyhow, from what we hear about how things go there. Still we are grateful to not have to get up too early nor to have to wait all day nervously. Please be in prayer for this most-awaited day!!

It is hard to explain how we feel being here to do this. It is like being in another place and time… I mean, I guess it IS another place and time sort of, but it really feels like being in a dream somewhat… of course that might be the effects of jet lag. LOL

Well, I’ll write again tomorrow night regarding the outcome of our appointment. Thank you for your prayers and comments. God bless all of you!

 
 

“Mind The Gap!” 7/25/2005

Filed under: — jodi @ 2:22 pm

I’ll keep this relatively short as we barely slept on the flight from Phoenix to London (though it was a comfortable and pleasant flight), and seeing as it is now almost 10 pm London time we are really tired and about to crash. We did manage to keep ourselves from sleeping today, and instead took the “tube” in to central London, walked around, took a “flight” on the London Eye and managed to get in a fabulous dinner. Those were the highlights. The downer was the it was really overcast and downright COLD for us Arizonans. It was a high of about 67 and a low in the 50’s which is winter weather as far as we’re concerned. Still, we kept moving, and at least it didn’t actually rain on us, which was especially nice since the weather forecast had been calling for rain for today in the previous days and weeks.

Anyhow, here are a few pictures from our few brief hours in London. They have a lot of large, old, and impressive looking buildings here, and most of them can be seen from onboard the London Eye… it truly is an amazing thing and it was worth the cost for the trip.

Steve and Jodi by the Thames Steve and Jodi By The Thames

Car on the London Eye London Eye “car” that holds up to 25 people!

London Eye London Eye from the ground

Brits have a lot of strange ways of saying things, but our favorite saying of the day was what was said by the subway conductors when patrons were boarding or exiting the trains… “mind the gap between the train and the platform” or oftentimes just “Mind the gap!”

Step carefully across the gap (of London) to Kiev…

 
 

We’re off! 7/24/2005

Filed under: — jodi @ 3:42 pm

We leave the house in about 30 minutes to go to the airport… from here we fly to London where we’ll hopefully get to update. It is our first time to London, and we hope to see at least a few sights despite the called-for rain.

Until then…signing off.